Yooooo! Welcome to Andrika's blog spot. I decided to create this to keep us black folk from going nutzzz. I would like you to let out all your anger right here in a blog. Remember writing is theraputic. Dont hold back. Let your friends know about this site.
I'm trying extremelyyyyyyy hard not to get angry with men to the point that I want to commit a crime including a man that is better yet a boy *socks with rocks in hand*
ReplyDeleteBut the question is why are you getting angry with men. What are they doing to piss you off?
ReplyDeletebtw tryin extremelyyy hard not to blow up new roc for all the bullshit im goin thru to keep a job
ReplyDeleteboys/men are very lost when it comes to dealing with emotions its like they need to take a class to be aware that some things they may do are just not right or there are simple ways to go about listening to a female without being talked to death by her.. its just unreasonable im starting to question a mans worth.. its just a simple way of feeling safe to have them around or is it?
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the women. You have to remember that women can be annoying at times. and women have to remember that men dont think like us. And as far as new roc goes. They can fuck off. lol thats the reason I left
ReplyDeleteI like mean people, they keep me on my toes and they give me a taste of reality. It is super gratifying when mean people do something kind (that’s when you know they are real sweethearts inside).
ReplyDeleteWhat’s the deal with men?
As much as we heat them we can’t live without them.
Otherwise we would be real moody bitches in the end.
Converse, express your feelings, learn to listen and be open minded. Learn to compromise (not all the time though)
Blah…I was going to say something else but I forgot :-(
lol its ok Lori. You like mean people too much. But I understand what you mean by "they are really sweethearts inside." Thats cool though. You should really be venting about that Love word wit ray. lol
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ReplyDeletedamn i kinda spell my name wrong it should be LORILAMAGNE.
Truen story I should maybe it would help me clear my head an decide what i really want!
i want a mannnn. but guys seem to only be attracted to my physically. i've done the whole show the intellectual side but always end up with the same results....
ReplyDeletequestion of the hour... "do the songs we (women) listen to steer our motives, personality, and feelings?" hmmm a new status lol ... but in my opinion i think at times it can... i can be having a grand old day and once i put those headphones on and kelis "caught out there" comes on I turn into a devil cursing men out sayin they are no good sperm donors or remember when i was getting hurt by a man
ReplyDeleteMen are something else.
ReplyDeleteBut I think we just have to be patient.
I know you probably hear that a lot.
But here is an idea….attract them with your beauty and keep them with your personality!
If they don’t linger then they are sooo not worth it.
Maybe they are attracted to both??
I need more detail otherwise i'll say a lot without really saying anything at all
Okey...Dika this is for you!
ReplyDeleteThere’s Jorge. He stirred up a lot of unknown emotion in me.
I really liked him and at times I still think I do.
Once a week, I go into his myspace to check on him to see what’s new.
I know that’s kind sick but I’m not going to lie, I do
For me he was perfect but he didn’t seem to think so!
Through Jorge I met phil. Phil is his childhood friend/best friend.
Once I met Phil I found out that he actually lives right across the street from me.
TALK about wired!
Phil and I became really close, so close that Phil started to like me, so much that he said (“Lori I think I’m falling in LOVE with you) wth man!
Through Phil I met Ray. Ray is his close childhood friend.
Who turns out likes me and wants to be with me.
Block is the guy I am “with” right now. The difference between Blocks, Phil and Ray is that.
1. Phil and Ray are my actual friend. And they both like me (my fucking luck)
2. Blocks and I have a mutual “friends with benefits” agreement from the get go.
Why I’m I having so much trouble deciding what I want?
Cuz I did know what I want, I wanted Jorge, problem was that he didn’t want me.
And at the end I could not have him
What do I do now?
Phil is my friend whom I Love ( as a friend) and if I decide to give Phil a chance that would ruin the chance (if there ever is a chance ) of me getting with Jorge. And as much as I love Phil as a friend, I strongly believe he cannot please me as a woman.
(I hope he never reads this)
Now Ray ( I think he is sexy) but he is so boring! I cannot have a fun conversation with him on the phone. In person he is okey! The problem with ray is that (I can’t even mess with the guy) cuz one he is phils friend and (I don’t want to hurt phil) and two I don’t want to hurt ray when things don’t end up working out.
I refuse to be the cause of these men’s suffering!
Now Blocks, has no association with the above men mention. He pleases me as a woman and there is no strings attached. If one day I decide not to ever talk to him again, he would be hurt put we would be like fuck it, and move on.
Damn….I feel so much better!
sandra i think songs do change our feelings. cuz i swear i be chillen with friends having a happy day then they play love songs about broken hearts and shit then i get all sad. Like damn when will I ever find a goods man. True story. Music is crazy. It can make u or break u
ReplyDeleteFirst off if you like Jorge and he doesnt like you, u need to move on. You cant force him to like u. so fuck him. Now Phil, it seems like u too have alot in common but lets just keep him as a friend only. Now between blocks and ray idk wat to say you gotta make a list of what they both offer and which one u like more. actually u have to ask yourself what it is you want right now. a friend with benefits or someone you can marry?
ReplyDeletelol oh yea Lori STOP FUCKING WITH FRIENDS. that shit is no beuno! seriously. and If you think u and blocks relationship is healthy and ur not gonna feel any sour emotions when its over then go ahead. but i wouldnt recommend it. and just b/c ray is boring on the phone doesnt mean he's a boring person. u said it yaself that he is cool in person.
ReplyDeletedid u want me to talk about how I hate niggers on here??
ReplyDeletegirl talk about whatever you want. This is for people to let out their problems. so be my guest!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, I'd like to apologize on behalf of my gender(male).. forget
ReplyDeletethat..no apologies...lol .....You ladies are way too gullable. The
reason why guys "hurt" you is because you DON'T KNOW THEM WELL ENOUGH.
Maybe I'm wrong, but it seems like most of you think a man is
essential to your wellness.....WRONG.....Jumping in and out of
relationships just goes on to prove that you don't take them
seriously. It is the people that take time to learn about their
significant other that know how serious it is. When a guy cheats on
you he is telling you "you don't satisfy me" in his own words. So why
go through the trouble of going back and forth to him? Hurting
yourself sounds retarded to me, and that's what most of you do.Stop
saying "men"...say "man" and be specific.The generalization annoys the
hell out of me. So stop blaming guys for your madness, blame
yourselves for allowing it(not all,but most of you)..I have much
more to say but this is all I felt like typing.
THE GHOST, your absolutely right. we should blame ourselves for the shit we go through. but damn can guys be a little more considerate and sensitive to our feelings. They shouldnt seek out a committed relationship if they are just going to cheat. Be honest from the start. if your not being pleased let her know and bounce. dont cheat and cause extra problems.
ReplyDeleteok im new n tight as hell cuz the guy i was with gt his girls name tattooed on his chest n they been together for a month or two we were together for 2 years R U SERIOUS!?!?!?!?!?
ReplyDeleteTANGEEEEENTTT!!!!! Drika, you have renewed my weblog drive... We need to get the rest on board & take Blogger over w black feminine prowess...
ReplyDeleteCarry on!
pissedoff09, men are like children. If you let them get away with something, they'll go the whole 9 yards. Seeing as how you two aren't together anymore, aren't you GLAD there's no immortal evidence? That way, he doesn't need to lie to ppl and say that the tattoo of your name is actually that of a childhood pet lol. THEY'RE ALL IDIOTS LADIES!!! Even the good ones are a tad slow...
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ReplyDeleteI think we should stop worrying about guys. I mean do we really need them? We can provide for ourselves. I mean, sure, it's nice to have someone who understands us and comforts us. But to find something like that in today's society is really hard. We shouldn't trouble ourselves with things that we already know. For example, guys at young ages are complete assholes. We know that for a fact so why should we keep on wanting to search for the one who is not an asshole? Most of them time that guy is there anyways and you don't realize it until you are all the way at the bottom of all your misery. BUT, that is not said that we should go and throw ourselves to that guy. Good things take time and that is the key to a good relationship. Rushing leads you to nothing.
ReplyDeleteOn another note, we ladies, excluding Mr. ghost up there, are not quite the innocent little ladies that we think we are. A lot of us are assholes also, just in our own ways. I'm sure that at least 65 or more percent of the people who have participated in this blog have cheated or done something completely messed up to a guy.
Anyways we should really stop worrying about guys. They come and go like money. I've learned so much about relationships and guys in general. I am now aware of what guys I want to get rid of. ...and remember not even the good guys are perfect...we all have flaws...
With all that said, I AM OUT like Girl Scout.
yes Misha! we must take charge! im tired of the bullshit from new roc security gaurds. lol
ReplyDeleteDrika... you just said a mouthfull lol. and 0n3day, i concur that i have turned into an unrelenting asshole towards men, but i can honestly say, i've never cheated... i usually leave before the urge strikes lol
ReplyDeleteOh i never cheat im usually the one getting cheating on. but FUCK THEM
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